Are you loosing the love you once felt for each other?
Why is love not working for you?
What are the things that jinxes your relationships?
Truthfully speaking, there's more to be in love than making each other happy. However, building a connection that is deeper and it's ever more satisfying than someone would ever dreamed possible is just like climbing the Parisian tower. The power of communication is the backbone of every succesful relationships and marriages. 70% of relationships and marriages are failing not because of unstable wealth or unattainable goals but because of the fact that the art of communication is one of the most misunderstood concept. Therefore this concept has always been underrated while the subject of Love has always been a mystery to be solved on everyone's part. Some would even say that love is like a fart, if you have to force it then it's probably shit.
I have identified below the list of words that I considered the most powerful in English vocabulary. Learning to use this words in our day to day lives would help to grow and move our relationships to the next level.
1. One most powerful word is ''Please''
2. Two most powerful word is ''Thank you''
3. Three most powerful word is '' I love you''
4. Four most powerful word is ''what do you think''?
5. Fifth most powerful word is ''I am proud of you''.
Everyone has a unique character, emotional traits and emotional needs. If a man understands the emotional needs of a woman, having a long lasting relationship would be pretty easy and less difficult.
What is an Affair?
An Affair consists of two mature people who become enamored in an extramarital relationship which involves the combination of love making and feelings of deep love. However, having an affair is like a two sided coin. One can have an affair that involves only lovemaking, or the feeling of love towards someone who is not your regular partner.( I.e outside your relationship or marital life). Friendship kickstarts an affair, conversation draws you together. At first, you start talking about topics of similar interests, the friendship deepens overtime into sharing personal problems, as you spend more time together you start to share more intimate problems and boom, it goes off to discussing about the unmet emotional need of your partner. Millions of people in the world today gets remarkably disillusioned about the way their relationships is turning out. In a nutshell, a friendship that grows into an affair is quite illogical.
Does Love and Affection go hand in hand?
If you're in love, that means you've got the right chemistry, that means you're caring for each other the right way and if you're not, you should learn the right way to show your care. A man who grows up in a family where affection is not present will not be able to give affection because he himself received little or even none. To him, affection is just another word for sex. To women, affection symbolizes an high sense of security, comfort, maturity, protection and acceptance eventhough they are saying no verbally. When you show the opposite sex an affection, you communicate the following messages: I care about you, you're important to me and I don't want anything to happen to you, I'm concerned about your problems because I see them as mine too. Every man must need to understand how bad women needs these affirmations.
Affectionate habits includes: hugging and kissing every morning, before leaving to work, arriving home after work, talking over breakfast or dinner about how much you care about her, remember her birthday and other important days, buy her sentimental gifts sometimes.
What about Hugs?
An hug best explains all I've been saying so far. Generally, women love to hug,they hug each other, they hug little children, animals, pets e.t.c I'm not literally saying that they would open their arms into the hands of just anybody, No. But studies have shown that the female counterparts hug the most and also loved to be hugged in return.
What about Emotional honesty?
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